Tomorrow you may propose a working woman or you may already married to a working women, but you should understand these facts firmly grounded in your mind;
Here is a girl,who is as much educated as you are, who is earning as much as you do;
One, who has dreams and aspirations just as you have because she is as human as you are;
One, who has never entered the kitchen in her life just like you or your sisters have not, as she was busy in studies and competing in a system that give no specials concession to girls for their culinary achievements;
One, who has lived and loved her parents & brothers & sisters, almost as much as you had for 20-25 years of her life;
One, who has bravely agreed to leave behind all that, her home, people who love her, to adopt your home, your family, your ways and even your family name;
One, who is somehow expected to be a masterchef from day #1, while you sleep oblivious to her predicament in her new circumstances, environment and that kitchen;
One, who is expected to make tea, first thing in the morning and cook food at the end of the day, even if she is as tired as you are, maybe more, and yet never ever expected to complain;
To be a servant, a cook, a mother, a wife, even if she doesn’t want to; and is learning just like you are as to what you want from her;
And is clumsy and sloppy at times and knows that you won’t like it if she is too demanding, or if she learns faster than you;
One, who has her own set of friends, and that includes boys and even men at her workplace too, those, who she knows from school days and yet is willing to put all that on the back-burners to avoid your irrational jealousy, unnecessary competition and your inherent insecurities;
One, who is doing her level best and wants to make this most important relationship in her entire life a grand success, if you just help her some and trust her;
One, who just wants one thing from you, as you are the only she knows in your entire house - your undivided support, your sensitivities and most importantly - your understanding, or loved, if you may call it.
But not many guys understand this...she enter your house with full of dreams and hope...
Try not to destroy it...And please...appreciate HER...
|Taken from google|